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My Story of Employee Theft

My Story of Employee Theft

Do you trust your employees? You must, right? To some extent. Because they have keys to the office, or the store. Also, they have access to customer files, or the stockroom. Certainly, they know proprietary information about how your company does business. And you like to think you are a good boss. Understanding, and fair. So when bad employees happen to good entrepreneurs, it cuts deep. But it happens. I know, because it happened to me. My story of employee theft is like so many others – a cycle of trust and betrayal. 

Because like the proverbial frog in a pot, I didn’t know I was being boiled. My trusted general manager slid from superstar to fraudster, and I didn’t even see it happening.

Employee Theft Facts

Sadly, this happens more than we think. According to the US Chamber of Commerce, 75% of employees admit stealing from their employer at least once. And this is bigger than some office supplies. Reportedly, the median loss for a company is $117K. For example, one family business lost $400K when their trusted bookkeeper spent 6 years funnelling money to herself. Clearly, this can be damaging, and in fact, up to 30% of business failures are linked to employee theft. 

Surprisingly, this isn’t all front line staff sneaking home cash or stock, either. A study by The Association of Certified Fraud Examiners shows that 11% of employee theft comes from executives and upper management.

My story of Employee Theft

I’ll start at the beginning. I hired Chuck (not his real name) in the early years of building my last company.

From the start, I knew I wanted to expand and franchise my concept. So when it came time to delegate front line customer service and staff management tasks, Chuck was the obvious choice.

After all, he had been working out in the field and knew all the tactical details. Although he had no education or training to be a manager, the dedication was there. Initially, it worked well. I developed structures and processes. Then he executed and maintained them. I came up with branding initiatives and marketing strategies, and he managed the influx of customers. We worked together well to brainstorm and resolve the little fires that pop up in daily operations.

It was all so golden. Until it wasn’t.

Growth and Change

Skip ahead a few years.  My company was now franchised to a few cities, and turnover had reached 7 figures. As a result, the head office team had grown. Chuck was still my key manager. And now there were more staff. To manage scheduling, supervise staff, and lead training. 

Also, the business structures and systems had grown as well. Weekly reports monitored important KPIs tracking sales and service quality. Franchisees used software to log their monthly reports. Our team met regularly to review performance, resolve issues, and discuss opportunities to continuously improve productivity and effectiveness.

Seems like I was doing everything right, right? Later, when doing my MBA at Durham University, I did look back and reflect on business decisions I’d made. And I can honestly say that I made solid strategic decisions based on data and analysis.

But I did make one big mistake. Actually, two of them. I trusted Chuck. And I didn’t hold him to the same standards and expectations of every other employee.

Because the systems of checks and verifications that covered staff and franchisees didn’t include him. I didn’t see the need. I trusted him. We were friends. I thought he had my back, and that included doing his job well. But that gave him the opportunity to take advantage.

Seeing the Cracks

Company culture changes with growth, and time. With the team now 30+ people, Chuck and I didn’t work together with the same closeness. Truthfully, we were also both dealing with some personal family issues. So any shift in our relationship seemed to be about the deadlines of client contracts and stresses at home. 

Then, Chuck needed to be a caregiver for a family member. I was understanding. Patient. When he spent the afternoon out for hospital appointments, he told me he was working on his laptop in the waiting room. He told me he was working evenings and weekends to cover everything. And I believed him. So he stayed on payroll, at his usual wages. Even though I didn’t see him for days at a time. 

Honestly, I was seeing issues by this time. Small mistakes that never used to happen. And the lack of engagement and involvement in the business started to be a problem. A meeting would be carefully scheduled to accommodate his caregiving responsibilities. Only to be cancelled last minute because of a new hospital appointment.

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Breaking Point

It was a difficult situation for me. Chuck was a friend, my trusted right-hand man. By this point, we had 10+ years of history. He was going through a terrible time. The stress and worry of a sick family member is a heavy burden. And there was always this promise that things were about to change. That after the next treatment, he’d be more available. Or starting next week, he’ll be at his desk every morning.

However, this wasn’t happening. Not long before the illness, Chuck had moved into a new position, to focus on franchise support. I was covering many of his tasks. And the business was feeling the pressure of paying out a decent salary for someone who wasn’t doing the work to earn it.

Then came the breaking point. Chuck’s own health hit a wall. Of course! After all, that level of stress over many months is going to have an impact. 

Therefore, Chuck had a doctor’s note to go off on medical leave. He’d come off payroll, and get on government benefits.

The End

It was a huge shift, to have Chuck out of the picture. Calmer. Fewer unknowns. More control over the schedule and activities. Also, I learned a few things.

First, I learned that I could complete all his job responsibilities in about 10 hours a week, which made me question why I was paying him a full time salary.

Second, I learned that most of his time had been spent backfilling to complete the work of the person who sat at his old desk. Because this new manager wasn’t managing. Chuck was covering for him. And why? It was his son. Yes – another mistake. See #2 in the list below – never hire family members of existing employees.

Clearly, this was the end. Though my company was successful, we were not Amazon. We did not have the reserves to cover the full salary of someone who hardly worked. So after getting some good legal advice and putting together a fair package, I fired Chuck. His position was eliminated.

Then, Things Get Ugly

Ironically, Chuck’s fraud only came to light when he sued me for wrongful dismissal. Because that led to a full audit of his activities. And wow, that was illuminating. Banking hundreds of dollars a month in mileage when he didn’t have any out of office meetings. Scheduling his daughter for client service calls, doing them himself, and paying her anyway. And the list goes on. It was mostly time theft, padding paycheques, and misrepresentation. 

It was a breach of trust. And it was theft. Once all this was presented to his lawyer, the suit was dropped.

Meanwhile, things got ugly. Chuck and his son were saying horrible things about me on social media and online. I received nasty and vaguely threatening messages from past employees. My company suddenly had many 1 star Google reviews from school friends of Chuck’s son. All fake reviews, because they were not customers. For more on that, read 5 Strategies for How to Handle Bad Reviews.

Eventually, all that settled down. Some more staffing changes streamlined operations. All the errors were fixed, and gaps were closed. The employee who replaced Chuck and his son was more efficient and accurate. Business continued, until the pandemic hit, which changed everything. 

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Project your business from employee theft

For specific strategies on how to protect your small business from employee theft, read this article. 

Reflections

Overall, what did I learn from this experience? If I could roll back the clock and have a do-over, these are 4 things I’d do differently:

1. Keep a boundary between friendship and business

It’s ok to be friends with employees. But make clear that there is a line protecting the needs of the business. And that your personal relationship is separate from their performance as an employee.

2. Never hire the family of existing employees

Even when qualified. For a small business, it’s a big risk. In my case, a family illness impacted 3 people on staff, because they were all in the same family. The only exception would be if family members work in different departments, and not directly together.

3. Never trust self-reported data

Always verify information, even with senior level trusted staff. Basically, just don’t trust trust. Make sure there are mechanisms in place to confirm and verify.

4. Impose strict approval processes

Be sure that any financial transaction or purchase decision is within strict limits, or is personally approved by you. 

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How to Stay Focused as an Entrepreneur

How to Stay Focused as an Entrepreneur

Entrepreneurs know how to get things done. However, the ongoing flow of creativity and innovation that comes with running a business can get overwhelming. There are constant distractions and demands. Essentially, this can be a challenge. As a client described recently “I’m working all day but don’t feel that I’m getting anywhere.” Given that, here is how to stay focused as an entrepreneur.

But first, know thyself

Although it’s helpful to get inspired by stories from successful CEOs, know thyself. What works for one person may not fit your lifestyle, or priorities. For example, advice to get up at 5am to eat that frog may not work for you. Because your business hours means your bedtime is 1am. Or you are a night owl, and do your best work in the evening hours. Therefore, the most important thing is to know your own cycle and routines, and adjust accordingly to make these strategies work for you.

1. Stay fit and healthy

Nothing boosts focus like wellness. Exercise boosts endorphins. And when we are dehydrated, brain function declines. Staying fit and healthy ensures that you are focused, and not foggy. So get lots of sleep, eat well, and move every day. This optimizes your health and boosts your ability to focus.

How to Stay Focused as an Entrepreneur

2. Streamline workflows

Next, take a look at all your communication channels and organizing tools. Look for ways to simplify and streamline. For example, say there is one software to monitor projects with contractors, and another platform for staff. Flipping between platforms, emails, and lists is time wasted. More importantly, it’s hard to focus when there are so many sources of information coming at you. So streamline workflows. Consolidate lists and project planning into one method. 

3. Be realistic

Though to-do lists are valuable, they do have downsides. When Monday is stacked with dozens of tasks that can’t be possibly done in one day, it’s easy to get off track.  Because then the schedule on Tuesday is overflowing with unfinished Monday tasks. And so on and so on, all through the week. This is overwhelming, and stressful. Subsequently, focus is pulled to the weight of the task list and the lack of clarity. Which takes away from actually getting things done.

This is one strategy for how to stay focused as an entrepreneur. Be realistic about the time available each day, and the time required to complete tasks. It is better to set 2-3 goals for the week. This gives your brain less to think about, which increases focus.

4. Be structured

Generally, entrepreneurs work on 4 groups of tasks: operational, tactical, administrative, and strategic.

Clearly, it’s necessary to manage clients, staff, and suppliers. But without a structured schedule, this can consume the whole workday. For example, a client told me he jumps onto email at 8am. By the time he wraps up delegating, responding, and directing operational and administrative tasks, it’s 2pm. And he is tired, with no energy to do the projects required to execute strategies to grow his business.

So create a space in your schedule to focus on the projects, planning, and decision making that matter to you. Make the time to have the time to dedicate to working on your business.

5. Eliminate distractions

Obviously, distractions break our focus. But you may be surprised at the small distractions which are getting in the way of being highly productive. So when you head into a block of focused work time, turn off notifications on phones and laptops.

  • Mark the time in your calendar and tell family and staff that you are working.
  • Be in a place where you won’t be interrupted.
  • If you can’t get that at home or in the office, find somewhere else. Go to a coffee shop or library.

My favourite way to block time and create space to focus is to join a FlowClub session. Then I’m online with people from around the world who are also looking to clear distractions and focus on tasks. There are sessions all day, every day.

Also, there are options to personalize the experience. Choose from a pomodoro format that builds in breaks, which is known to boost focus. Pick time blocks of 60, 90, 120, or 180 minutes.

6. Stop multitasking

We’ve all done it – thinking that we’ll get stuff done faster if we do them together. You may have heard that science says otherwise. Studies show that multitasking tires the brain and leads to more mistakes. Actually, multitasking just dilutes the brain’s ability to concentrate. Juggling many tasks at once does not allow for full focus and attention.

Conclusion

It takes effort to change habits and routines. Streamlining workflows and consolidating productivity tools takes time. But these are important strategies for how to stay focused as an entrepreneur. In the long term, it will allow you to be more effective and reach your goals faster. For a real game changer, check out Flow Club. Enjoy space to focus and a sense of community from accountability partners. I’m there most days, and I even host sessions. Come join me in the Flow!

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The loneliness of entrepreneurship

The loneliness of entrepreneurship

When I started my first business in 2001, I was not prepared for the loneliness of entrepreneurship. I’m an introvert, so escaping the corporate cubicle hive of my HR career was actually a relief. I didn’t miss the office politics and forced social situations. Working alone in my home office suited me perfectly. Building all the bits of pieces of a service business was fun, and I loved the creativity and freedom. Then there was the exhilaration of hiring staff, and landing my first clients. I also joined a local entrepreneurship organization for networking and collaboration. 

The days were busy. I dealt with people all the time. So where does the entrepreneur loneliness come in?

It creeps up. 

It does, even for an introvert. And here is why:

1. Isolation

Entrepreneurship is isolating. There may be a team and a community, but there is just one seat for the driver. 

And this isn’t natural, for humans. Being social is our genetic heritage, going back millions of years. Studies credit it for our development of language and technology and all the stuff that allows you to read this on whatever little gadget you are holding right now. 

But it takes more than being social to combat the loneliness of entrepreneurship. We need a sense of belonging. A feeling of connection with like minded people. Unless you are lucky to have fellow entrepreneurs in your family or household, this is tough to find.

As entrepreneurs, it is easy to feel isolated because we are often the “other.” Though all our time is spent with people, we are never in a peer group. There is always an exchange involved. In our business, we are the boss and have a responsibility to lead. With clients, there is the responsibility to serve. Then with suppliers, we are the clients negotiating a deal. And in entrepreneurship organizations, we are representing our brand to network and collaborate. All these interactions are transactional, not inclusive. Spending all our time in these professional relationships without a feeling of inclusivity is a key reason for the loneliness of entrepreneurship.

2. Image and Identity

By nature, entrepreneurs multitask and juggle many projects, tasks, activities, and responsibilities. It’s part of our identity. We are a leader, and the boss. It’s always a public role, on a large or small scale.  Every business is different, but all entrepreneurs are involved in some level of marketing and promotion. It could be local TV and radio, print publications, social media, public speaking, billboards, or podcasts. One way or another, entrepreneurs are out there to build their business and increase brand awareness. This requires presenting an image of strength and confidence. 

However, that strong public image and identity leads to isolation because it doesn’t leave room to connect with people on a personal level. As explained earlier, relationships tend to be transactional. People engage because they want to be your customer, or land you as a client. And because of the responsibility to represent your brand and maintain the image of strength, these interactions are all professional. If someone asks how things are going, the answer must always be positive. Even if you are in the middle of a terrible, stressful, challenging week.

3. Confidentiality

This is another reason for the loneliness of entrepreneurship. The matter of confidentiality is a barrier to connecting with people. Not every business has high-value intellectual property to protect, but every business has reason to want confidentiality. Entrepreneur loneliness creeps up because we can’t talk honestly about our issues and challenges with other business owners. Vulnerability is necessary to bond with people on a personal level, and this isn’t possible when confidentiality is a concern.

An inside baseball talk about your sector and market is fun, informative, and provides a valuable sense of belonging. This is why there are thousands of industry conferences every year in the US alone. It’s a safe space that allows for personal connections to develop. As a franchisor, I attended a few Canadian Franchise Association conventions. These were valuable for 3 reasons. The workshops and keynotes built my skills and inspired me. And I met amazing people who understood the joys and challenges I was facing. Shop talk about franchising was enjoyable, and I made one very good friend that way.

However, these kinds of conversations can reveal sensitive information. Details about strategic plans, weaknesses, or pricing strategy require confidentiality. If this knowledge were to get out, it could negatively impact valuable competitive advantages. This creates another barrier that leads to the loneliness of entrepreneurship. It doesn’t feel safe to share freely because of the need for confidentiality, and this prevents the feeling of connection and inclusion.

Personally, I found that the people I trusted didn’t have the knowledge or expertise to provide meaningful feedback and support. And the people who could help were competitors, or close friends with competitors, or just untrustworthy gossips. 

4 ways to cope with the loneliness of entrepreneurship

There are many strategies to help prevent entrepreneur loneliness. It comes down to building connections outside of the circle of employees, suppliers, and customers. This is a little tougher for introverts, but there are some great books which can help with that.

1. Mastermind Groups

Online or in person, mastermind groups are a safe space to connect with other entrepreneurs. There is generally a code of confidentiality, and often groups don’t have competing businesses, so you can be free and honest. Also, mastermind groups are a way to access a broad range of ideas and expertise, which can give you valuable perspective on your business.

2. Mentors

Having a mentor is a powerful way to prevent isolation as an entrepreneur. It’s a chance to brainstorm solutions with someone who knows your sector. Because sharing freely, feeling heard, and being encouraged are all effective for creating a sense of inclusion.

3. Fitness & Fun

Getting out of the bubble of our business to have fun is a healthy way to stay balanced. After all, the mental health benefits of exercise and laughter is well known. Taking time for fitness and hobbies that you enjoy gives the brain a break and creates opportunities to connect with people. 

4. Entrepreneurship Organizations

Finally, a benefit of most networking groups is that memberships usually allow only 1 business per sector. Not having a competitor in the group opens up the possibility to develop friendships. Joining an entrepreneurship organization is more than learning and referrals – real connections can be made. I actually married someone I met in my BNI Chapter!

Book recommendations to cope with loneliness

As Taylor Swift said once, “The scary news is, you are on your own now. But the cool news is, you are on your own now.” This is especially true for entrepreneurs.

It can be lonely at the top. This book shares tools and strategies for women leaders and business owners.

Conclusion

As shown above, it is very common for entrepreneurs to experience isolation and lonliness at one time or the other. Clearly, this is challenging for mental health and productivity. However, there are strategies that can help business owners cope. Specifically, joining mastermind groups, having mentors, taking time for fitness and hobbies, and joining an entrepreneur organization can help prevent the loneliness of entrepreneurship. 

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